I wrote this post in December, a week before our home was opened & we accepted our first foster care placement.
We (the Kieklaks) are at the tail end of the foster care certification process. We were supposed to have our home open by November 1st, but there was some forgotten paperwork that surfaced after we signed our contract. Now, after the 1st of December, we’ve gotten all the paperwork (actually all of it this time) sent in to DHS and we’re just waiting for approval. Our foster care agency will want us to take another respite care placement before taking a (more) permanent placement.
It’s been a while since we posted regularly on here, but we wanted to tell you guys about some big changes. Both of our families started foster care this summer! We wanted to update you with where our families are in the process so you can be praying for us as we begin this journey.
Let’s start by explaining why we feel called to foster care. We’ve always had a heart for serving, and what better way to love your neighbor than to provide a safe home for a child in need? We both feel we have a safe & loving home to offer (though maybe a little crazy sometimes!) and more room in our hearts and homes, so we wanted to get involved.
This post, along with the next several that I’m posting, is back-dated to better reflect the order of events. I’ve been doing a lot of catching up on blogging lately, so I’ll be posting a lot in a short span to help catch you guys up on the last year or so. Sorry if your inbox gets spammed – it’s just for today!
We had these pictures taken right after the boys turned one. Mitzi (or Mimi as the boys know her) did a great job capturing their personalities. We love looking back on these and remembering how little they were.
For their first birthday, our boys had an airplane-themed party. I wanted to go with a theme that was very easy for cake decorating & minimal on the other decorations, but still cute. I made the boys little individual cakes so they’d each have their own little cake (we’ll see if I continue that tradition, it might be too much work once they have their own opinions and preferences).
I also made a larger cake that was for the rest of the guests, and I used a little toy seaplane for the topper. I saw someone else do something similar and I loved the idea of having a topper that is also a toy so I’m not wasting my money on something I’m only using once.
Here are the last of my bujo spreads from 2017 – here’s to another year of journaling!
I’m catching up on blogging our big events for the past couple years, excuse all these adorable baby pictures from our boys’ first Christmas.
I’ve been pretty lax about posting updates on here, so don’t mind these pictures from Thanksgiving 2017. In the next couple months I’m planning to post updates from the last few years.
Adoption is important to both of our families, as caring for orphans is not only a job Christians are charged with, but also a glorious picture of the gospel and our adoption as sons and daughters of God. If you have questions about adoption, have a heart for adoption, or want to grow your love for orphans, one of the best things you can do is get your hands on a copy of Adopted for Life by Russell Moore right now.
Below are links to some of our favorite adoption resources, and we’ll add to this list as we come across things:
The Connected Child by Karyn Purvis & David Cross
Adoption: The Heart of the Gospel – sermon by John Piper
What I Learned About Our Heavenly Father by Being An Adoptive Father
Lisa was interviewed about embryo adoption on a podcast in 2018, here’s the link:
Adoption with Allyson Reid and Lisa Kieklak
Books On Sexual Purity For Children
1. God Made All of Me – A book to help children protect their bodies.
2. Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr. – A simple plan to help protect young minds.
Matt and I bought these two books for our children about 6 months ago or so, and after several read throughs I would say they are both worthy of a recommendation.